Men are always accused of being prey to some things they just don’t have any control over. They are termed as demanding, bossy, egocentric and even inept especially when it comes to sex. Is that rue? IT’S TRUE that most men are alike but some aren’t, and they are considered as feminine, but yet there are others who first fall in the category of being great and then to the not-so-great category. Well let’s start from the beginning.
Most men believe that they are the most important species that we women are dealing with. Sure they may be great with numbers, especially with telephone numbers of some great gangling females; they are still their stages of infancy when it comes to feelings. After a good search i have found out that most men are visually stimulated, in simple they have to see everything to understand and believe. From a sexy pair of legs to a passably satisfying bosom.
But when we talk about women, a woman needs to be stroked and felt, whereas a man has already been stroked by his mere vision. He doesn’t need to drone her just speaks his mind and sees it. This is perhaps the reason why men seem to get aroused much faster than women would.
It’s true that most men love to be ahead of everything, be it career or sex. If they cannot find themselves to get on to the top of it all, they lose interest. Most of the times, a man challenges himself into believing that he can be the best lover and although he may not vibe with the feelings of the heart, he does pursue the issue only because he knows that he can get his woman laid, in this manner.
Another shortcoming that he might face as compared to women is that men cannot understand images. They are trained in the physical aspects of life, which may range from making tree houses to even making their own homes. They cannot imagine that most of the planning can be done in advance so as to make their own lives easier a little later.
Women are genetically inclined to literary arts and poetry, which makes them the "feeling" people. People who can understand, feel and more importantly visualize. It is no wonder then that most women can partake in the mass appreciation of pornographic stories and pictures. Men only use these as objects to get a massive turn on, again a visual aspect and not related to imagery.
Most men prefer to have the light on; perhaps a little dim too as the thrill to watch a woman naked is perhaps unmatched to any other in the world. Women almost always need to have the light off. So many differences, why is it for a woman to understand a man is always been easier then a man understanding a woman.
It’s not only the part of sex, where the understanding is required; sex is always been a physical game for most men. During my survey on wild sex I encountered men largely seeking sex in the animated form. Which was hard to believe?
For them sex need not prescribe to the notion of being loved. Yes love is a part of it, not the heart of it. Sex was always a beast-like affair. One that involved huge fight-like encounter, with both partners wanting for more. This is so because for them, sex is only sex and nothing more. It’s more like a pornographic movie, the more the better.
Most of them understand the huge importance of drugs used to virtually increase sexual stimulation that can last for hours together, without any breaks. One man was hugely candid about saying that sex was more of a release of tension, of tensed nerves as it were, so the more release the better. The frequency of sex also mattered.
My research has given me many reasons to write on but if I sit down on writing the differences, the truth will come out of the hidden picture. Let’s keep it the way it goes.
